Social media love doctor, Joro Olumofin, has given single ladies an advice concerning marriage. According to him, the quest to get married has made many of them lose focus in life. The result of all of that is that men now take advantage of them after knowing fully well that they need them to feel accomplished in life.
Joro Olumofin shared on his Instagram:
”Things have changed, the Value of men has gone up. This is only because a lot of ladies have attached marriage to their success and happiness in Life.
Men are now fully aware that most ladies need them to feel accomplished. A lot of ladies have their fixed wedding dates & Aso ebi colors without boyfriends.
Men now use the M $ R words (Marriage & Ring) to manipulate and control women into sex and making downgrading compromises.
Ladies, Dictate the terms of your happiness, don’t lose focus when you hear the word Marriage”.
This new post from Joro Olumofin is coming just few weeks after he advised ladies not to think of marriage if they are not earning up to N150, 000.
”If you’re a single lady and you’re not earning at least N150,000 a month you shouldn’t be thinking about marriage yet. This is for your own security & sanity in marriage. Based on hundreds of mails I receive daily from posters. I’ve noticed a trend in behavior : Commitment before finances. Most ladies go into marriage with the hopes that the man will take care of everything . Some even see marriage as their way out of responsibilities such as paying bills, etc. A lot of married women are unhappy in their homes but can’t leave because they are not independent, some don’t even have transport money to go back to their parents house. Secure the bag first”.