Biola, revealed how she got pregnant at 19 and had to leave her baby’s daddy at 23 due to their toxic relationship.
“Got pregnant at the age of 19, was zero’d out, condemned, alone and lost
Became a mother & thought it best to make it official with my son’s dad at the age of 20
Got into unhealthy patterns in our relationship that led to emotional
abuse and toxicity for the most part. Finally got the courage to
separate at the age of 23 after going through an abortion and Sexually
This started my downward spiral into involving myself in multiple toxic relationships between the ages of 24 – 27
Confused, lost, dark, toxic relationships was my drug of choice. Felt
unworthy, self-esteem dragging on the floor begging to be picked up, had
little or no confidence, gave up my power to define who I was to other
people because I just hated the woman I had become. I constantly
questioned why I was so different and abnormal.
My body defined my
worth. I clearly had nothing to offer. My single motherhood didn’t even
help. They said I couldn’t do any better because of my baggage. I agreed
with them and gave them my power. It was their word over mine.
Finally got tired of engaging in this toxic cycle and decided to embrace
my difference. At this point, I was tired! I was sick! I was done! I
found my light towards the end of 2016.
Found the love I had been
seeking the whole time in myself. Things started clicking. I found my
purpose. I realized I had a story to tell and was determined to share. I
was worthy and enough the whole time and didn’t even know it. I finally
found my voice and I promised myself to speak my truth.
I promised God that if he took me out of my misery and showed me the way, I will spend the rest of my life serving.
Currently serving and growing a tribe of women who believe in their
power to create their stories and would do anything to make it happen.