A distraught 23 years old single from Okene Local Government Area of
Kogi State, North Central, Nigeria, Miss Ajarat Adams has warned her
colleagues who are still single to be careful and prayerful before
entering into a relationship with any man to avoid falling in to the
hand of a wicked man like her estranged lover (Name withheld ) who
impregnated and abandoned her at the hospital where she gave birth the
baby who died same day due to lack of money.
She said that she decided to speak out so that other innocent singles
would learn from her bitter experience before they foolishly got
pregnant for their so called lovers, saying men are “lairs,deceitful and
Narrating her ordeal she passed through recently in the hands of her estranged lover to Pm News
in Lagos, Adams said that she entered into a relationship with a
supposed loving and caring young man from Ikorodu, Lagos in 2016 and
that along the line he lured and pampered her till she became pregnant
which he accepted and begged her to keep the pregnancy with a promise to
She said that the young man even took her to his parents at their family
house in Ikorodu , Lagos to introduce her to them as his wife to be,
while she also took him before her parents in Ikorodu to introduce him
to them as her husband to be, not knowing that he was a deceiver.
Adams added that her estranged lover started manifesting his true
picture when she fell into labour in May, 2017 and was rushed to a
health centre in Ikorodu town, Lagos where she successfully gave birth
to a baby boy.
She stated that after she regained consciousness, she discovered that
her baby had a big hole on the right side of his head and that doctors
on duty advised her to call her people so that they could issue a
medical report for her to transfer her baby to a specialist hospital to
save his life.
She said that to her utter surprise, when her estranged lover came to
the hospital with his parents to see her baby with a hole on his head ,
instead of them consoling her, they started calling her all sorts of
names and abusing her, saying that they “don’t need a child with a hole
in the head in their family and they left the hospital without dropping
any kobo for the upkeep of her child and the hospital bills.”
She said what pained her most was that her baby died same day when help
did not come from anywhere to give her the needed medical attentions.
Adams said that she is advising singles to learn from her bitter
experience to scrutinise their lovers to be if they would be supportive
and show love if temptations occurred in their relationship;
She appealed to Non-Governmental Organisations, NGOs to come to her aid and fight for her.