y husband wrecked our wedding, leaving me to walk home alone in
tears. When I got there, I found him in our bed with another woman. He
then took her on what should have been our honeymoon. My dream of a
white wedding turned into a horror show.
big day for two years while he kept drinking down the pub with his
mates. By Easter, he had nothing saved to pay for the hall, flowers or
caterers so I gave him the money but he ended up spending that on booze
alternatives. I had a beautiful £800 wedding dress ordered but he took
that money too and drove me to the local supermarket to find a cheap
replacement. Then, on our wedding day, he was all dressed up in an
expensive suit but laughed at me, saying I looked like a tramp.
and wouldn’t let my family anywhere near me. They drank loads and
the wedding cake on the floor. Then they went off to dance, leaving me
to clear up. It took me three hours.
find my new husband having s*x with an ex who his mother insisted be a
bridesmaid. When I cried, he said I was pathetic and he’d have more fun
with her — so he took her to his uncle’s caravan at the seaside for a
week, which was supposed to have been our honeymoon.
treats me with respect and kindness. When I found the courage to tell
him about my marriage, he said I should leave my husband and be with
him. Or should I stay where I am and hope things will improve?