Relationship blogger,Joro Olumofin,has listed ‘Major reasons why
Mistresses / Side-chicks are Winning & some wives are Losing.”
1️⃣ Sexually Progressive – Most Side-chicks are more sexually
exposed and enlightened than wives, Sidechicks are willing to take more
risks & use every single organ of their body to please a man.
Meanwhile some wives are very Comfortable with only missionary style
from January to December , they frown at a lot of things. E.g. I
received a mail last month where a husband woke his wife up in the
middle of the night & asked her for sex in the car, she replied him
& said why are we paying all this rent money to have sex in the car.
Do I look like a university girl to you? The husband got so upset, went
to the toilet to masturbate. A Sidechick would never say NO to sex in
the car even at 3am.
2️⃣ Body Goals / Physique: A wife has a lot of
responsibilities.Managing a home, raising children, running her
business, catering for her husbands needs / chores. She doesn’t have
time or luxury to have body goals or even Join a gym, hence she begins
to look like a GrandMa or an Aunty. Most wives assume the role of
mothers 1000% forgetting about their looks and their husbands needs. On
the other hand, Sidechicks sleep in the gym, slay for breakfast and
dinner, have flat a belly and look exactly like a mans fantasy.
3️⃣ Some wives are not Prayer warriors, their prayers are face validity alone, they don’t have a “War Room Mentality” :
A lot of Sidechicks have Spiritual & marine spirit backing &
are on a mission to destroy homes & take everything for themselves.
They use charms & all sorts to seduce husbands. Some wives have
already lost the battle before it began because they don’t have a deep
rooted relationship with God neither can they fast for 40 days or more
for their family’s sake. They want Pastors to fight their battles for
them instead of intending to the issue personally.
4️⃣Mental Masturbation : Make a man feel like a king even if he’s
broke or hasn’t paid the children’s school fees. Most husbands avoid
their homes because it reminds them of a reality they want to avoid. (
their failures, responsibilities, duties, obligations etc) Wives are
very good at putting their husbands in reality check by nagging and
making him feel less of a man. E.g. You haven’t paid Jnrs School fees,
we haven’t paid the mechanic, the rent is due, generator is bad, when
are you getting a new job? , make sure you enroll for your masters. All
these questions kill a mans Ego. When he is with his Mistress she has no
business with these questions and she makes him feel like King Kong.
5️⃣ Men are like babies. They want everything new and shiny :
Sidechicks are in tune with what’s going on in town, the new songs, the
new bars/clubs , new attires men are wearing, new hair cut, new sex
positions, new slangs. When a man hangs out with his mistress he feels
likes a young boy again, he feels like a university boy, she tells him
to grow his beard, she tells him ” who you epp” , she calls him ” end
time bae” , ” Recession boy” things he has never heard before. But when
he gets home his wife says ” Good Morning Akin, how are you?” She makes
dinner reservations for him at the same restaurant he has been to 1000
times. He starts looking at his own home as basic.
7️⃣Twerking : As silly and ordinary as the word “twerking” may
be. Twerking is a reason for a lot of friction in relationships. Based
on direct observation and hundreds of mails received on My Blog. Some
Husbands want their wives to twerk, some wives are either horrible at
twerking or they think it’s beneath them. Hence there is a conflict.
When a man finds a lady who can twerk for him daily he’s dissatisfied
with his wife and home. He starts seeing his wife as a bore.
8️⃣ Slay : As i mentioned earlier in point number 1, wives are
very busy with a lot of responsibility. Hardly would you see a wife
spend 200k on a pair of louboutins when she’s got school fees to pay,
salary and rent. Sidechicks are real life Beyoncé and Kim k. They wear
the best and look the best. Because of this , husband are more inclined
to takes their Mistresses out on dates more than their wives. A husband
once told me, my wife can not even slay to kill a rabbit. “She will be
wearing Aldo & Micheal kors upandan “
Summary:
Nothing can stop a man from cheating or having a million Mistresses. A
wife can slay for breakfast, lunch and dinner and her husband still
sleeps around. This article only highlights the reasons why some
husbands act the way they do, in Psychology personality can not be
changed once fully formed but only managed or curtailed based current
variables. Be the best you can be as a wife and leave the rest to God.
The areas where you think you’re lacking, meet up.
culled from @joroolumofin