13-year-old Blessing Bassey Okon was living with her grandmother in
Akwa Ibom when a stranger visited them, offering to employ the teenager
and lessen stress for the older woman who could barely feed herself and
the child.
Blessing’s mother had remarried after her father died and left her in the care of her grandmother.
According
to Blessing, the stranger, identified only as ‘aunty’, took her to
Calabar after gifting her grandmother N4,000. But in Calabar, the aunty
who claimed she sold bags of rice forced Blessing into prostitution with
a threat that she would let the child go hungry if she refused to do
her bidding.
Here’s what Blessing said, according to The Sun:
“When
that Aunty came to my village to pick me, she deceived my grandmother
that she had a big rice shop which she wanted me to manage. She gave my
grandmother some money and the old woman asked me to go with her. In
fact, I was very happy because I wanted to leave the village to an
urban area, so I would have the opportunity to engage myself in one
trade or the other, since there was no one to support me.”
Blessing
also explained that when they got to Calabar, her madam, instead of
taking her to the shop where she would manage, she was taken to a hotel
room for prostitution.
“Unfortunately, it was when we
got to Calabar that I understood that what I went to do was
prostitution. She showed me a room and instructed me to ensure that I
deliver enough money to her otherwise I would die of hunger. I felt bad
and wondered what to do. After much thought, I remembered that I had no
option than to obey her directive. So grudgingly, I started the job. I
wanted to report to my mother and grandmother what I was going through,
but due to lack of mobile phone, I could not. While doing the job, I
used to deliver between N10, 000 and N20, 000 to my madam on daily
basis. It was from the money that she feed me and pay for my room. Sad
enough, I was not given any cash, even when I was the one who used my
body to make the money.”
Blessing eventually saved
enough to sneak back home, but she was disappointed when her grandmother
encouraged to continue with prostitution.
“When I
reported to my grandmother that the lady she gave me to later
introduced me to prostitution business, she was not bothered, rather,
she advised me to try to cope, in order to survive the hard times. From
her statement, I understood that it was a planned work. She even later
gave me one of my sisters to join me in the business.”
The
teenager returned to the city and continued with sex work, but she
would be among the group busted by a team of Police officers.
“I
was in my room when some policemen came. When they saw me, they were
surprised because of my age. So, they arrested me. the following day, my
madam sent someone to bail me from the police detention. When I left
the station, a woman I did not know took me to her house and was giving
me food. I was really satisfied and comfortable than the place I was. At
a time, her son started abusing and beating me for eating their food,
without doing anything for them. As a result, I left the place and went
home to inform my mother, instead of discouraging me, she also
encouraged me probably due to the bag of rice and other items I gave to
her. So, when I returned, I decided to leave my madam to be on my own.
Thereafter, I started going from one hotel to the other and was making
some money, but could not see what I did with it.”
No long after, the abused child contracted HIV and would later meet some preachers who convinced her to join their church.
“While
in the business, I contacted HIV from one of my boy friends. Even at
that, I was still having sex with several men. But I do not know whether
they also contacted HIV or not. At a stage, I began to get worried
about my condition and a possible way out because I could save money to
do any reasonable thing from what I was doing. So, one day, some church
people who introduced themselves as members of The Lord’s Chosen
Charismatic Revival Ministries in Calabar came to preach to us in our
hotel. Their message centered on repentance. And as they preached to me,
I was touched to heed their advice to leave the job and join them, but
another mind told me not to go. But after much thought, I made up my
mind to follow them to church.”
“Even
when I joined The Lord’s Chosen, the demons in me were still at work.
And, I was fighting with some members regularly, on little provocation.
But the members advised me not to do such things in the church, yet I
did not listen. One day, I prayed God to remove the demons in me and
those in my siblings because we are known to be troublesome people in
our community. Good enough, I was managing myself to attend the Church
and they were really working hard to deliver me.”
“I
was brought to The Lord’s Chosen Crusade in Lagos from Port Harcourt on
Friday, June 10, 2016 by their members. They sent me to Port Harcourt
branch from Calabar. Then from there, they brought me to Lagos for this
programme. When the 2-day programme started on Saturday and prayers were
offered, I felt relieved of the problems I used to have. I also
noticed that the HIV has disappeared because I do not notice some of
the symptoms I used to have. What is left is for me to be tested to be
medically sure.”
Blessing is yet to be tested to
confirm her viral load, and it is not stated what steps the church took
to ensure her medical safety. However, the most grueling part of this
story is that she blames herself for the ordeal she was put through.
Here’s what she said:
“I
want God to forgive me. I also want those I have wronged to forgive me
also. I want to start a new life. I want to be a child of God and do not
want to go into prostitution any longer. So, what I need now is a job
and accommodation to enable me take care of my self.”
It
is unclear if the church members reported this shocking case of child
abuse and slavery to the police, and to bring those involved to book.