Like a phoenix, Lara Kudayisi Emeralds is rising from the
ashes of adversity and inspiring others to do so through her story. Her
tale will inspire you to rise above your challenges no matter what life
throws at you.
Her dream is to help singles make the right decision
before walking down the aisle. The pretty relationship counselor and
matchmaking mistress had a child at 19, her heart was broken 14 times
and and has had 15 abortions .Today, Lara is touching lives through her “Matchmaking Mistress” platform.
When you meet Lara, you realize she doesn’t look like what she has been through. This is her story as told to Women of rubies.
Meet Lara Kudayisi-Emerald
I am the Matchmaking Mistress. I help singles attract their dream
partners and walk down the aisle in the shortest time possible. I do
this viaThe Achieve Your Marriage Goal Plan, Help My Heart Skype Call and The Complete Singles Club among others
The Match Making Mistress Brand
It actually started with my Complete Singles Club. I realized that though the guys and ladies chat daily in a Whatsapp
group and meet every month, yet relationships weren’t happening like
everyone expected it to. I knew at that point that I needed to go an
extra mile to help them. I started matchmaking a few of them that were
interested and things got better, and since then I discovered an
industry that is untapped and decided to pioneer it.
Being a relationship expert
Apart from being aMatchmaking Mistress. I am also a Relationship
Expert. I started doing that because of my journey to a happily ever
after life. I had a child at 19, had 14 heartbreaks and 15 abortions. I
was so messed up until I finally got married to my prince charming. I
decided to help people find happiness without going through all I went
through and that was birthed the relationship articles and coaching
programmes.
Pain is what pushes me
I want to help people in the little way that I can. Pain is what
pushes me. I want to help eradicate pain. A lot of people have
miserable marriages and dysfunctional relationships. I have been
through this so many times and it’s not a pleasant place to be in. I
feel fulfilled when I see people that I help smile and feel better.
Giving up?
Oh Yes. So many times I feel like giving up especially when I wasn’t
making money and I was pouring out my soul to help people especially
when it’s the only thing that I do. If you don’t make money from your
passion with time, you would get frustrated. I had to learn that lesson
the hard way and make it a full time business that pays the bills
Other Projects
Our Complete Singles Academy is coming up soon. It’s an Academy that
singles need to go through for Self Discovery and Mastery. A lot of
single people don’t even know who they are or why they act the way they
do. Some people were raped, molested or mistreated and broken when they
were young. It has affected who they are and what they do. This has
affected who they are or how they behave. It also affects how they date
and who they date. When you are dysfunctional, you would attract
dysfunctional people, because you attract who you are. Furthermore, we
would run dating programs and Marriage Preparatory Classes. I am so
driven to help repair singles before they get married. When people get
married, it’s a lot more difficult to help them because another person
is involved.
Challenges
People are skeptical to be match made. They have no idea what match
making entails. In fact, some people felt it shows they are desperate or
it meant they were slackers as a guy. They didn’t know that there’s no
big deal in it. It’s just normal introduction of boy, girl like it was
way back in history. I remember asking a girl if she preferred to have
no one ask her out in ages or have me introduce different people to her
until she finds a perfect fit. Of course she preferred the
introductions. So the challenge is the ignorance in the society about
Matchmaking. It makes my work more complicated.
Future Project
Yes I do. I plan to take my Shattered But Not Broken Conference to
the world. That conference is where I share my story of pain and
struggle and how i was able to make something worthwhile of myself. I
would also lot of have a Relationship/Matchmaking Academy for people
who want to be licensed. There is none yet in the country and I’d love
to pioneer that.
Future Project
I plan to take my Shattered but not broken Conference to the
world. That conference is where I share my story of pain and struggle
and how i was able to make something worthwhile of myself. I would also
have a Relationship/Matchmaking Academy for people who want to be
licensed. There is none yet in the country and I’d love to pioneer
that.
Being a woman of Rubies
The ability to want to help alleviate people’s pain. I love to
eradicate people’s emotional trauma and lead them to a happily ever
experience.
Lara’s contact details:
Twitter&IG: @larakudayisi Phone numbers: 08060655460,07081573601 Email: [email protected]
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