This is really sad!
A 31 year old woman, Danielle Saul has killed herself after struggling to cope with fears she would never get married.
According to Daily Mail, the business development manager was found
hanged in her Manchester apartment following a night out with friends
in June last year.
hanged in her Manchester apartment following a night out with friends
in June last year.
She had told friends she was desperate to
get married but she was finding it difficult to get over a relationship
that had ended five years earlier.
get married but she was finding it difficult to get over a relationship
that had ended five years earlier.
On the night she died she met her ex and invited him and his friends back to her flat in Fallowfield to continue drinking.
But when they failed to reconcile and he left the following morning, Ms Saul took her own life.
Her body was found hanged in the flat three days later by a friend who had become concerned after not hearing from her.
An inquest, however, concluded that Ms Saul’s death was misadventure rather than suicide.
Coroner Jean Harkin said there was not enough evidence to prove that she had died as the result of a deliberate act.
Addressing the hearing, Ms Harkin
said: ‘It is clear she was experiencing some stresses at work and in her
personal relationships.
said: ‘It is clear she was experiencing some stresses at work and in her
personal relationships.
‘It is clear that her family don’t believe she intended to take her own life.
‘I must be satisfied that Danielle
intended to die by the act. I don’t feel I have the evidence beyond
reasonable doubt that she intended to die. I believe the evidence points
to an attempt.
intended to die by the act. I don’t feel I have the evidence beyond
reasonable doubt that she intended to die. I believe the evidence points
to an attempt.
‘I believe alcohol may have had an
intoxicating impact whereby the full outcome of her actions may not have
been totally realized.’
intoxicating impact whereby the full outcome of her actions may not have
been totally realized.’
Her mother Karen Saul, from Preston,
Lancashire, told the inquest: ‘She had had a couple of long-term
relationships, one of which was around five years ago, and then that
broke up but she still had feelings for him and found it difficult.
Lancashire, told the inquest: ‘She had had a couple of long-term
relationships, one of which was around five years ago, and then that
broke up but she still had feelings for him and found it difficult.
‘I think she had an overload that weekend
with the upset from her previous relationship. She had met up with that
person and I think she hoped they would get back together.
with the upset from her previous relationship. She had met up with that
person and I think she hoped they would get back together.
‘She had a difficult time at work a few
months prior to that in her previous job where she had a very difficult
bullying boss who got her upset.
months prior to that in her previous job where she had a very difficult
bullying boss who got her upset.
‘I believe she went to the doctors about
that in November 2014, and it seems around then three or four of her
best friends got married.
that in November 2014, and it seems around then three or four of her
best friends got married.
She
had told friends she was desperate to get married but she was finding
it difficult to get over a relationship that had ended five years
earlier. Pic: Facebook
‘At the time quite a number of her friends
were getting married and she was going to hen parties and she was going
to be bridesmaid and I think she got overloaded with these things and
emotionally things became exaggerated.’
were getting married and she was going to hen parties and she was going
to be bridesmaid and I think she got overloaded with these things and
emotionally things became exaggerated.’
Speaking of her daughter’s possible
intentions, Mrs Saul added: ‘It might have been a permanent solution to a
temporary problem. Had she talked about it we would have been there for
her.’
intentions, Mrs Saul added: ‘It might have been a permanent solution to a
temporary problem. Had she talked about it we would have been there for
her.’
Ms Saul’s best friend Lucy Nixon, was with Danielle on the night she died.
She said: ‘She was very down.
‘She always used very intensive words and we were expressive with one another. Saying “I feel like dying” would not be unusual.
‘She sent me a photo of herself crying on
Saturday. Going for drinks would be a huge distraction and she wouldn’t
bring that up. She did tell me in 2014 that she wanted to see a
counsellor because she needed to deal with her demons.’
Saturday. Going for drinks would be a huge distraction and she wouldn’t
bring that up. She did tell me in 2014 that she wanted to see a
counsellor because she needed to deal with her demons.’
Ms Harkin recorded a conclusion of death by misadventure.