In a new interview with New Telegraph Newspaper, Nollywood veteran actress turned evangelist, Eucharia Anunobi opened
up on being a single mother and how she regrets having a son out of wedlock. See excerpts below:
You once said that your intimidating profile tends to
discourage men from asking your hand in marriage; what is happening to
your love life?
I can’t remember ever saying such a thing. I don’t know about men
being scared of me (chuckles). Well, I will take it that what you are
saying is that I’m not in a relationship. Of course you know I would not
want to discuss my private life. But I have to tell you what I am doing
and what is not happening, I believe in things that are incubating; if
it’s meant to come out, it will come out. A lot of people do not know of
my commitment to my Christian life too.
How is your son doing? He must have really grown now.
Very well, we thank the God Almighty, the Lord has been faithful.
What is it like being a single parent?
It was not a deliberate choice that I have made, it came by chance,
it came by mistake. God does not kill His children who have made
mistakes. He would rather sustain them and tell them that He is the
owner of all things. The Lord has been sustaining me as a single parent I
don’t think about it, all I know is ‘God, you are the one that created
me and the child that you gave to me’. So whatever that is needed of me,
it was a wrong choice that I made.
Have you tried to reconcile with the father of your son?
When somebody says that I do not want to be a responsible father what
do you do? You don’t take a horse to the river and force it to drink.
Is there any plan of settling down, your ideal man?
Of course, why not? Every woman says I want tall black, handsome man.
We all need good things. All the good things every normal woman wants, I
want it too. He must be somebody who has the spirit of God, someone who
has Christ as his backbone.
What is the name of the church or the branch you pastor?
I am an associate pastor with the Fresh Oil Ministry International
Church at Egbeda in Lagos. I am an ordained evangelist as well as an
apostle; I am a convent speaker in and around the country. I had gone to
minister in the United States of America, a lot of West African
countries, and I have ministered in a lot of churches in and outside the
country and some churches and organisations invite me to be their
speaker at their various meetings.