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Aww, Iyabo Ojo finds love again and he is an amazing man!

Popular actress, Iyabo Ojo has found love again and she is happy
with the man in her life.

But then, the actress hinted that she and
her lover have not discussed marriage plans even though they have been
dating for about five years because she is not “really into marriage.”
She attributed that feeling to the fact that she once had a failed
marriage.
“I thank God that I have found love and I
am very happy with him. He understands me because I am not an easy
person to handle. I am always busy but my lover is very understanding. I
always make sure I find time for him despite my busy schedule. I cook
for him as well as my children. I don’t see cooking for my lover as a
big thing because of the way I was brought up. I love cooking.
“ My lover is also an equally busy person
but we always find time for each other. We have been together for about
five years and as far as we are concerned, we are married even though
we have not made it official yet. There is no much difference between
our union and that of married couples. I would say the only difference
is that we are not making it public and we have not made it official. If
marriage later comes up, I am fine with it and if it does not happen,
it is also fine by me. I love my life as it is and I am not someone
thinking about having kids again and my lover also has kids. My children
love him and we complement each other. We love each other; that I am
very certain of. If the wedding bells come, fine and if it does not, it
is also fine. I am happy and I have a man in my life that makes me
happy. I am committed to him the same way he is committed to me. I am
not really into marriage because of my last marriage. I have always said
that what I want in my life is a man that understands me and makes me
happy and I have that already,” she told Punch newspaper.
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Indeed,
Iyabo talks about her kids with so much passion. At the moment, her
daughter has followed in her footsteps in the make-belief industry and
she also talks sex education with her.
“When my daughter started her period, I
began to teach her about sex education. I felt it was the right time. I
let her know that as she has started her period, she is a lady now and
if she has sex, she would get pregnant. I told her what sex meant in
detail. You would be surprised how exposed these kids are now. They are
more exposed than we were when we were younger- all thanks to the
internet. Ironically, my daughter understands what sex is all about. I
always advise parents to be their children’s friends.
“When I was talking about sex to my
daughter, she was laughing and felt awkward about it. We need to educate
them and let them understand that if they engage in sex, they would get
pregnant and would stay away from school. I let her know that I am not a
party to abortion and there is nothing like that in my dictionary. I
let her know the qualities to look out for in a man. I always tell her
why she must not have sex now until she becomes an adult. When she
becomes an adult, then we would continue from there. Sometimes we sit
down and talk and I ask about her boyfriend but she tells me that she
has none. She would tell me that she has a male friend but not lover.”

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