Popular on-air-personality, Toke Makinwa, has come out to blast those having sex before marriage as dirty people.
According
to her, “S3x kills. It is bad for you to have s3x if you are not
married. You are dirty and God does not like dirty. If you are not
married and you are watching this, if you are underage, I’m judging you
because s3x should only be with your rightful partner, with your
husband. Why are you having s3x? Close your legs and only give it to the
person you want to spend the rest of your life with.
“Even if
you preach abstinence from now till tomorrow, people are still going to
have s3x. People are really having a lot of s3x. We are a generation of
people who are having too much s3x as far as I’m concerned and
protection is key if you must have s3x.”
- Nigerians
are raised to be ashamed of sex and talking about sex: We’re raised to
think that, ‘sex should only be with your rightful partner’ etc. - The fact is people will have sex regardless of marital status.
- People are so ashamed of sex that they can’t call the ‘organs’ by the rightful names. So people say words and phrases like ‘his thing’, ‘her snail’, kpekus, prick etc.
- Toke thinks it’s not every relationship you should have sex in.
- She says women especially should be careful that they’re not having sex for the wrong reasons. “If he’s not taking you seriously before the sex, then he won’t after the sex.”
- Toke answers an email from a fan whose guy likes to have sex for a long time (over an hour) without reaching orgasm.
- She also shares her fair share of tips – “Pay homage down there”…