Hi Kemi,
I used to think men appreciate their wife still looking
attractive and curvy and trimmed even after five, six or seven children. I guess I
thought wrong. I am a married 31 year old woman with 3kids. We had our last
child four years ago.
attractive and curvy and trimmed even after five, six or seven children. I guess I
thought wrong. I am a married 31 year old woman with 3kids. We had our last
child four years ago.
As a teenager, I used to be a size 16 but because I used to
like slim ladies I exercised a lot and went through some dieting until I became
a size 10. It was difficult but I had to. I had made up my mind to maintain my
shape even in marriage and after having kids. I want to look good not only for
myself or for my husband and but also to prove wrong women who say it is
impossible to remain in shape once married and bearing children.
like slim ladies I exercised a lot and went through some dieting until I became
a size 10. It was difficult but I had to. I had made up my mind to maintain my
shape even in marriage and after having kids. I want to look good not only for
myself or for my husband and but also to prove wrong women who say it is
impossible to remain in shape once married and bearing children.
I met my husband 16years ago and we got married 14years ago.
I guess one of the things that got him attracted was my stature. I had hoped he
didn’t want big women. In our marriage, he knows how much I try to keep myself
in shape. He even encouraged me by buying gym equipment into our house.
I guess one of the things that got him attracted was my stature. I had hoped he
didn’t want big women. In our marriage, he knows how much I try to keep myself
in shape. He even encouraged me by buying gym equipment into our house.
At present I still get wooed by other men, especially from
younger men. And I tell my husband all about them. I think it was this and
maybe other reasons that made my husband tell me to stop gym. He told me he
wanted me to look my age and stop trying to impress him anymore.
younger men. And I tell my husband all about them. I think it was this and
maybe other reasons that made my husband tell me to stop gym. He told me he
wanted me to look my age and stop trying to impress him anymore.
I am still in shock, how could he say that, he is supposed
to appreciate me and be proud of me. He said he would prefer me bigger and
fuller. But I don’t want to. I have worked so hard to look the way I am. I know
I have all tendencies to be big if I want to because I have the genes from my
mama’s side.
to appreciate me and be proud of me. He said he would prefer me bigger and
fuller. But I don’t want to. I have worked so hard to look the way I am. I know
I have all tendencies to be big if I want to because I have the genes from my
mama’s side.
I want to stand my ground on this and not listen
to my husband, but I hope I don’t end up destroying my home. KFBERS am i right.