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Thursday

Rape victim shares her story as she is set to graduate . .

Stephanie, a student of North Caroline State University, has shared her triumph story as she’s set to graduate in some days’ time. According to her, she was raped in her sophomore year.
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Writing on her website, she said: “During the fall semester of my sophomore year I went out to a party with my best friends. The night, which was filled with drinks, laughs and good times, slowly but surely led to events that would alter the course of my life.
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When I returned from the party, I invited a friend over to stay the night. This friend and I had been out a few times, my parents trusted him and it wasn't the first time he had spent the night. .
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I was exhausted and intoxicated but as he ran me a shower I remember vividly telling him that I had no intentions of having sex with him. Later that night I woke up with him on top of me, raping me without protection. .
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I cried, I asked him to stop and he told me to shh and let him finish. I cried but I laid there paralyzed. The next few days were a blur. I remember being a functional zombie for weeks. .
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For weeks, I withdrew from my friends and family members. I skipped class and missed work. I barely passed any of my classes and I seriously considered dropping out. .
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My energy was zapped as I saw my rapist everywhere. By mid second semester, he announced he was running for a very public position on campus. I watched as most of the black community, people I called friends, campaigned for my rapist. .
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On the night I planned to kill myself, my best friend saved my life. My other friend walked me to the counseling center the next day and thus began my journey to healing.
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I still struggle with depression and I still struggle with PTSD. I still struggle with nightmares. I still go to counseling but I'm so much better. .
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I've dedicated my existence to loving, laughing and helping others. I never imagined that I'd be graduating from one of the top institutions in the country or that I'd be addressing my graduating class as the commencement speaker.”

8 comments:

  1. I totally condemn rape but pls never you put urself in that position next time, morals are thrown away most times when alcohol is involved. You dont invite a guy to come sleep over when both of u or one of u is drunk unless he is ur brother. All these ‘my bestie is a guy and i even get naked around him n nothing will happen’ pls unless he is gay he might just be waiting for the perfect opportunity to attack. Congrats too

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  2. He betrayed your trust n friendship.
    But I must say you put yourself in an extremely vulnerable position.

    Thank God for your life.

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  3. Thank God you are now healing.You made yourself vulnerable.

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  4. Hmmm... I understand the trusting your male friend enough to spend the night together part but you were drunk and he took advantage of you, that's bad. Good to you are healing and doing well. I hope young girls will pick a lesson or two from this.

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  5. Always avoid being in any compromising position.

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