Singer, Oristefemi Majemite Ekele, otherwise known as Oristefemi, has
opened up on how he met his PR exec wife, Nabila Fash and how he managed
to win her heart despite being a street boy.
I met her at a show in Nigeria. I had just returned from a tour in 2016 when I was hired by MultiChoice to perform at an event.
When I was backstage with Daddy Showkey and other
colleagues, she was the one attending to the needs of everyone. Despite
her beauty, I also liked the way she related with the artistes at that
event. I was far from her, so she didn’t notice I was observing her.
After my performance, they invited us upstairs for a certain Nabila
Fash’s birthday. I didn’t really show interest because I was tired and I
didn’t know she was the one. When I saw her pictures the following day,
I wished I had attended the party. The event lasted for five days; we
moved from one place the other. I knew she was a nice lady and I felt
terrible that I didn’t honour her birthday invitation.We later met backstage at the next day’s event. The first event was held
in Port Harcourt while the other was in Enugu. I introduced myself to
her and she did the same. From the outset, she knew I wanted something
from her. She told me she was not my kind of person, but I should let
her know what I wanted.
When I told her I wanted to marry her, she thought I was joking. She
said she knew Oritsefemi’s music but didn’t know the person behind the
music. She said she needed to know me more before she could say a word.
To cut the long story, she thinks I am down-to-earth regardless of the
fame and she feels she can handle me. She had already taken her time to
know me more before she started hearing negative things about me. All
that she later heard didn’t change her perception of me.
How did a street boy get to convince an educated lady like her?
Most women are very intelligent. But I have always told God that among
these intelligent ones, I need just one to stand by me for the rest of
my life. I think she saw that I was sincere to her from the beginning. I
am always truthful to her and she is always truthful to me.