Controversial
Nollywood actor, Yomi Fabiyi, in a new article he shared on social
media, disclosed his thoughts on failed marriages.
The divorced actor took to his Instagram page to reveal that some people are destined to fail in marriage.
According to the actor, Marriage involves discipline and dedication.
He wrote:
MARRIAGE is an institution that must be built on a SOLID
FOUNDATION; CASTED with several conducts and attitudinal traits before
marriage. Marriage is never a bed of roses, it has many ups and downs
which needs strength of character to sustain.
Often times I hear some females opine that it is efficacy they
get loose sexually and experience it to the apogee and will round up and
turn a new leaf the moment they are getting married.
These they assume they can do this until it is crystal clear the
wedding is taking place. Some console themselves they rather go on
escapades as single as avoidance of such fantasies as a spinster will
mean the lady will cheat as a married woman, TOTAL LIES, no sense in the
codswallop.
The honest truth is this, what you are ADDICTED to becomes part
of you for a long time. I stand to be corrected, there are some traits
that one must not get neck deep into at ones formative years, it will be
hard to adjust from them even if one becomes an SU in marriage.
To really enjoy any marriage, especially in a world where the
fundamentals of home training to prepare a girl or boy for the core of
matrimony has long been jetissioned, one must take it upon him or
herself to engage in some self discipline to create a sexually abstract
and physical DNA that can stand the test of time in marriage. You cannot
eat your cake and still have it.
Some of us are package destined to fail in marriage. If we ever
last in any marriage, it may be perhaps because we are hoodwinked with
someone who keeps us as an evidence of social responsibility, sexual
satisfaction, and continuation of the human race only.
Some men know their woman cannot be tamed but are not ready to be
bothered with what their vows, ring or cert cant change anylonger. They
just look away.
IF YOU DONT DISCIPLINE YOURSELF IN SOME ADVANCES NOW, CHANCES ARE
YOU MAY FIND IT HARD TO IN MARRIAGE EVEN WHEN YOU HAVE BINOCULARS ON
YOU.
Be wary of what you get addicted to. Ask yourself now, WHAT
VALUES ARE YOU UPHOLDING PENULTIMATE A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP or YOUR
EVENTUAL MARRIAGE? If NON, avoid getting married or just dont invest too
much in your marriage, it is most likely to……. Yomi Fabiyi.