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'She wants me to call her at least three times a day' - NYSC Member laments

Here is a sorry story of a serving corps member in Ondo State whose girlfriend decided to call it quit for flimsy reason. If you were in his shoes what will you do or if you were to advice him, what will you say?


Here’s the story


“I am a serving Corps members in Ondo state, and my girlfriend is a fashion designer and a student. In terms of financial needs, she is self sufficient.

But i don’t really understand her. I love her that is the fact, i intend settling down with her very soon.

Most of the issues I have with her is that ; she wants me to call her at least three times a day, and most of the time we do chat on whatsapp, and I feel there is nothing really to say that will warrant me calling her, mind you I call her at least four times in a week, I am not a good caller anyway, but that doesn’t reduce my love for her, I don’t really know what she wants. I call her this morning and she was complaining I didn’t call her, that the sister who came to visit her, the husband calls her almost every hour, and I replied by saying I am not her sisters husband, she should learn to accept me the way I am, and if she can’t she can let go.

She sent me a text that is over, I am not perturbed anyway, but my worries is, why should this be an issue?.”

9 comments:

  1. Most lady loves guys who check up on them... Like me I love my guy checking up on me every second if possible

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  2. "I called her this morning and she was complaining I didn’t call her, that the sister who came to visit her, the husband calls her almost every hour"

    Is her sister's husband that jobless that he'll be calling her almost every hour? That's an obvious lie.

    Obviously, this lady does not love you. That's why she's coming up with some foolish excuse.
    I mean, who calls her girlfriend four times in a day? Except maybe for an important reason, but it can't be everyday. Who does that?
    Pls be happy she broke up with you.

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  3. U are not pertubed by the break up but u love her,bro one of the tins to do in a relationship is learning to adapt to som wishes of ur partner,......u knw u aren't a good caller,u shud learn to call her evn if it's once or twice a day for the whole weekweek.Hearing ur voice is different from reading ur msgs

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    1. Thank you. She doesn't love him.

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  5. You are so unserious! You call your partner at least four times a week????? When you should call her four times a day?????

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    1. Really sweetheart... So your man calls you four times daily? Unbelievable

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  6. Men like u cause so much problem. If you get married to her, you will speak to her just once a day?

    What do you mean by you call 4 times a week?
    If you are so into her, you will always want to talk to her.

    I am wasting my time typing sef.
    Good she left.

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  7. "Men like u cause so much problem. If you get married to her, you will speak to her just once a day"

    I'm surprised with some comments on this thread really.

    Is marriage not different? Marriage is not up for comparison with this story.
    Calling your girlfriend four times in a day is over-do, over-the-top. Doesn't make sense IMO. P.S. That's not how to show you care or love her.

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