KFB's heart-to-heart: “My Partner Is Requesting I Buy A Wedding Dress Of At Least N500k For Her”

This man needs your advice…
Good day everyone, am presently confused as to what I shud do. I have had a court wedding early this year with my wife. She is based oversea with parents. Am a young Doctor in the NYSC. We are planning our traditional and church wedding here in Nigeria for December.

Meanwhile I realised when we started talking about how to plan and church what can of wedding we expecting. Shocking to me was when she asked me how much is her wedding dress. She asked me this after I told her I budgeted around 800k for the wedding.
She asked me how much do I want to buy her wedding dress. And I replied something around 50k at most. She wondered, and said what kind of dress is that. That her dressing is @ leaest 500k? I honestly became very weak. I tried explaining things to her but she just behaved like someone who doesn’t understand the economic realities of the moment in Nigeria.
She dropped the call and I had to soul searched myself and came to the question, have I joined myself to the wrong person in life. What can I do at this moment? If I need a divorce for our court marriage, how do I go about it. Becos I don’t understand the hell that she wants by asking me to raise 500k for just a dress u wear for one day. I know my future is bright and that’s what am so much concerned about.
PS: I’m a young Doctor, NYSC. Just starting out my life
People should kindly advice and guide me on what to do. Thanks


  1. Counsellors over to you

  2. This is quite funny

  3. She is not serious. Wedding dress for 500k?since she is abroad and picks money on the streets she should pick enough and send to you for wedding dress.Please have a rethink before you commit yourself in the name of pleasing your gf

  4. I don't want to sound like a spoiler or bad belle, but my honest opinion would be for you to run for your dear life. For crying out loud, she knows you a young doc still trying to find his feet. Where does she expect you to get 500k from, for just a dress?? That's ridiculous.
    And have you told your parent about this? What was their reaction? May God help you to choose right.

  5. Jus pray to God.. Lol 😁 😁 😁

  6. Do you guys know yourselves at all? I mean KNOW YOURSELVES because this sounds to me like a 'faulty foundation' issue. Your relationship is queetionable biko

  7. What for? Pls talk to her she can get lovely gown that are cheaper

  8. If she can afford it, that's okay, but you must know you are dealing with an extravagant person who is only concerned about herself and not both of you. Do not complete your marriage rites if you can't cope with her spending habits.


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