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Let's talk! Is it okay for a wife to earn higher than her husband?

In a family, the husband is seen as the head of the house, he is often tagged the pillar, the source of income/bread winner. Although some school of thoughts do not agree with the above saying, it is widely acceptable.

The question here now is AS A GUY, CAN YOU MARRY A LADY THAT EARNS HIGHER THAN YOU?
AS A LADY, CAN YOU MARRY A GUY YOU EARN HIGHER THAN?
This is a serious issue at hand as most guys tend o be insecure once their wives start earning higher than them. And most wives start "misbehaving" the moment they start earning higher..
So guys, what's you take and why???


7 comments:

  1. Truth be told, guys tend to feel a bit threatened when the lady earns more but trust me, it's all about love and understanding. As much as i'd pray for my hubby to be able to take care of our family, I don't think there would be any issue from my end if i earn higher(and I won't say God forbid because a lady earning higher than the husband is not a sin/crime). I just think it's all about love and understanding. Me earning more than he does does not mean he doesn't earn well too, he might be earning #600,000 monthly while I earn #750,000*shines teeth*..you see, he can still take care of the family. If we love and understand each other, we would put our resources together and I think we would do just fine.

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  2. Why not?as long as he brings something to the table every month ending,its fine by me.

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  3. Love settles it all... Don't see anything wrong with dhat

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  4. My Husband earning more dan me it allowed bt b4 I marry him completely I will av had my own money not that I will earns more dan my hubby bt will surely av my own source of income too so that the equation will be balance

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  5. To be honest, I think it is guys/husbands with low self esteem that would feel intimidated/threatened if their wives earn more than they do. As long as a husband is bringing something tangible to the table, performing he's responsibilities well enough, I don't think there should be problems or he should feel threatened. And yes, I can marry a lady that earns than I do, although I don't pray or wish for that lol. It's about love n understanding o.

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