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KFB's heart-to-heart: I mistakenly got pregnant for my fiancee who happens to be a Pastor ....

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I got this in my Inbox. Biko advice her.
"Am 26 yrs of age, got engaged last December

My mum is no more and my dad is nt in the country. My fiancée is a pastor bt unfortunately I got pregnant for him
The introduction is on Feb 25. He actually planned on paying my bride price same day bt my dad is against it says he wants it to be on December bt on unfortunately by then i would have put to birth
Should I abort it this issue is making me compromise my faith and believe in God. Pls advice me i never wanted to have out of wedlock
Pls help"

11 comments:

  1. I thought you were suppose to abstain, your faith has been compromised already just talk about forgiveness of sin. I wish u well.

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  2. You don't want to have a child out of wedlock but you like premarital sex? He didn't rape you did he? When you were doing it, you didn't ask us to peep. Now wey belle don enter, u want advice from us😕

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  3. Open up to your father about it


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  4. Dont touch that baby!like why do u people have sex knowing that u ain't physically and mentally ready for the outcome? Smh

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  5. Did u say that your fiancée is a pastor and u are talking about compromising your faith.. U have already done so by having sex before marriage. The deed have been done,just ask God for forgiveness and allow him to direct u and pls do not touch that baby. Good luck

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  6. Never in your life should you abort have your wedding after you must put to bed.
    People will talk o,but it is just for now......honey do not play with barreness.
    so because of one yeye Bride price you want to kill your baby.
    Please just stop that stupidity of yours.

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  7. Never in your life should you abort have your wedding after you must put to bed.
    People will talk o,but it is just for now......honey do not play with barreness.
    so because of one yeye Bride price you want to kill your baby.
    Please just stop that stupidity of yours.

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  8. Dont abort it o.It will worsen the whole thing.Let him without a sin first cast a stone.Those you feel will be disappointed, shior, give them one year, they will have forgotten and moved on.And you will be at peace with yourself.Just ask God for forgiveness, believe in yourself and whether your family supports you or not, please do not abort!God help you my dear

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  9. My dear, the deed has been done.Just ask God for forgiveness and please DO NOT ABORT! It will only complicate things.Let him without a sin be the first to cast a stone.You see those people you feel will be disappointed , shior, I give them one year, they would have forgotten.Do not do anything you will regret biko or will take away your peace.Just believe in yourself and trust God to lead you! I wish you well

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  10. Being a pastor, you guys should have tried harder not to fall, but now that the deed has been done, first, ask God for mercy.


    I need to ask you this out of curiosity, are you truly a Christian? Because a child of God wouldn't wanna kill(abort) , cover up a sin with another sin.

    You guys have erred, open up to your father as he probably doesn't know your reason for wanting to hasten the bride price payment.

    DON'T touch that child because if you do, you are only gon make things worse. Premarital sex is bad enough, don't add abortion to your list.


    It is well with you.

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  11. First thing, you need to understand that both you and your pastor fiance have sinned already, so ask God for forgiveness. I am really disappointed in your Pastor fiance for contributing to this as well given his mantle of leadership and as a Shepherd of a ministry but that aside. Pls tell your dad (either by yourself or tell someone he respects and listens to, to help you solicit). Can't believe ABORTION is even crossing your mind. You said you are a Christian and you want to kill after already committing Fornication ( that will be sin upon sin and am sure more sins will soon follow) The implication could be very worst for you and would haunt in the future. Your father will be very disappointed but should eventually forgive you as his daughter. He may even fast track the wedding to save his face from family & friends (that's how parents think sometimes). You are looking to start your own family, don't kill your first seed in order to look perfect but man. It is God that matters.

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