Monday

Let's tell you about Anita, the Lady who crashed Toke Makinwa’s marriage


It came to many as a shock when OAP, Toke Makinwa headed for the High Court in Lagos a few months back and filed for a divorce from her 18-month-old marriage to fitness coach, Maje Ayida. She also instituted Maje and his Baby Mama, Anita Solomon, as respondents.
Who is Anita? In her book “On Becoming” which Toke finally launched on November 27 in Lagos, she dedicated some chapters to revealing what transpired in her crashed marriage.
Anita
Excerpts:
The Other Woman
“Who was that girl?” I asked
“That’s that girl”
“Which girl?”
“The girl I told you about. Her friends are always calling me to say she really likes me and has a crush on me. Her name is Anita.”
“So that’s the Anita girl they say you are dating.”
“I’m not dating her. How can I date someone that is always saying ‘can I come and see you? I’ll bring my friend that you think is cute’?”
I accepted Maje’s explanation and concluded that Anita was not important. So I’ll be with Maje and she’d call and I’d tell him, “The girl that has a crush on you is calling.” And it would be nothing.
Kemiashefonlovhaven exclusively gathered some fact about the ‘Other Woman’ in Toke’s crashed marriage.
Anita is a lawyer, a mediator and an Internet marketing coach.
Anita and son
She said of herself, I have a full time job...lucky me, and a part time job I love more. As a mediator I see a lot of people in distress, and it pleases me when we settle disputes and bring people back together. As an internet entrepreneur, I love helping people create the lifestyle they desire. Making money online has been quite fulfilling, teaching people how to do what I do is the bomb!” (sic)
Anita
The half Lebanese, half Ibibio was Maje Ayida’s girlfriend even when he was courting Toke—a fact the pretty OAP accepted in her book:
I had been with Maje from when I was an immature teenager, through my twenties, and for most of those years, Anita had been the standard I had to live up to. I had lightened my skin at some point – Anita was half Lebanese and half Ibibio, and Maje made me feel like he preferred her lighter skin.”
Definitely, Maje must have left Anita to marry Toke, an act, Kemiashefonlovehaven learnt, irked Anita’s family members when she got pregnant last year.
Her son, Micah is over 12 months old and she adores him.
Anita, who isn’t a fair-skinned as Toke indicated, is a simple and laid-back dresser and currently wears natural hair.
Its still puzzling how a simple, unassuming lady could have given Toke a run for her fashion sense and fame. She seems to be peace-loving because anytime any of her followers on social media talks about her baby, Maje or Toke, she keeps quiet.
Anita and son
Meanwhile, in chapter 8 of "On Becoming" Toke revealed that Maje infected her with Sexually Transmitted Disease. Guess the source of the disease? Toke wrote:

 
Toke Makinwa
For a case that is in court, many are of the opinion that Toke shouldn’t have released the book that has said so much about the respondents- Anita Solomon and Maje Ayida. 
Will Anita Solomon, take legal steps?
Time will tell.
 
Source: Kemi Ashefon

29 comments:

  1. This Toke is just too fake,always living her life for the media. What's the point of writing a book?

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Her story, her choice, her experience. In a society that blames and scorns women for a failed marriage forgetting it takes two to tangle.

      Delete
  2. I think toke ha gone too far. Everybody has a right to privacy,unless it was with their permission.they need to sue toke. Bitter woman.(to think I was supporting her b4). U all are victims.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Unless what Toke wrote is a lie, they have no right to sue her. It's her life and she can write whatever she pleases to write about it. Will you sue a person for writing an autobiography just because your name is mentioned in the book? In fact I commend her because her book has given many women inspiration and strength to know they're not alone in their pain.

      Delete
  3. Anita ooo, gullible husband snatcher u should av left makinwa alone with maje, at least he was married...do u think d relationship u now av with him will go well, after breaking toke'home.. D earlier y realize dat D better for u...

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. But was Toke actually a good wife? Answer this question sincerely. We all saw how she was all over the place at a time her marriage was still fresh.
      She painted herself like a saint....... which she's not. Why use their real names if not to make money off spite. If Maje and this Anita want to rubbish her life, I'm sure they have enough dirt on her to do so. But they have been mute and letting her roll in the mud alone......... until this book release that is. I hope the revenue from the book sales will cover her legal fees when they lash her with a flood of law suits. One can only take so much.

      Delete
    2. I pray u xperience half of what she had with Maje. You comment is not on point.

      Delete
    3. Flakkie Chris, have you actually read her book? This triangle with Toke Maje and Anita started like 2007 o. And I remember before this book, people were saying Toke snatched maje from Anita but turns out, maje and Toke were together first. This has nothing to do with her being a better wife. The man was already a lying cheat before they got married

      Delete
  4. Toke should not have mentioned Anitas name.....

    ReplyDelete
  5. I don't think Maje will marry this Anita
    .Let us see how it goes.

    ReplyDelete
  6. Anita is a fyn babe, more beautiful than toke who looks vain

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Please don't judge her. Let come to think of it. She have been with Maje still teenager. So what do you except to have as a result. If Maje haven't think of dumping Toke all dis won't be happening now.

      Delete
    2. anita looks peaceful. every man will want to have her as a wife. Toke not sure .........................

      Delete
  7. Hmmmmm, now they wanna want to scramble on each other toes. I fear oh

    ReplyDelete
  8. Hmmmmm, now they wanna want to scramble on each other toes. I fear oh

    ReplyDelete
  9. Toke u are a loser, deal with it, u think bleaching your skin will make a man love u, how do u now bring back your skin colour now that maje is gone,you are too fake.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. @ Angelray4sdk, You comment as if u get no sense of thinking @ all. Anyway, can't really blame u.

      Delete
    2. Hater alert! Has he married Anita? She shld be happy yet, cos he is a born cheat and that does not seem like winning 2 me.

      Delete
  10. Why is no one talking of how Toke lied about her wedding being a surprise, same fact which was debunked by her designer? That is where some of her insincerity seems to have begun. She was desperately going after Maje, who had his heart elsewhere.young ladies should learn some lessons here: Never tie down a man that obviously doesn't want you.

    ReplyDelete
  11. I hope people learn from this and not castigate.

    ReplyDelete
  12. she thinks everything is about money mtchheew
    the truth is,maje never loved toke.

    ReplyDelete
  13. Any body could be Anita Solomon she can't toke to court, not in this life time. Anita Solomon is who she decided to name her character in her book if the name fits the baby mama then she's the home breaker. Shame on the women who are commenting that toke did wrong, I pray your marriage don't end up with your husband or partner cheating on you, the insecurity it bring upon any woman/man is the worse feeling EVER. Well done toke for taking a step in moving on with your life Anita can have him if she want a cheating, lying man.

    ReplyDelete
  14. Any body could be Anita Solomon she can't toke to court, not in this life time. Anita Solomon is who she decided to name her character in her book if the name fits the baby mama then she's the home breaker. Shame on the women who are commenting that toke did wrong, I pray your marriage don't end up with your husband or partner cheating on you, the insecurity it bring upon any woman/man is the worse feeling EVER. Well done toke for taking a step in moving on with your life Anita can have him if she want a cheating lying

    ReplyDelete
  15. What are some of you saying about Toke not being a good wife hence Maje had the right to cheat like what the hell there is no excuse absolutely none for cheating in a marriage. If she was a terrible wife then divorce her return her to her father's house but never to cheat on her as a consequence of not being a good wife that's absolute rubbish. And as for anita what am I hearing that she's a peace loving person what peace loving person sleeps and gets pregnant for a married man, I can still understand it when they were single and he was dating toke and anita but immediately he took his wedding vows with toke that was her cue to leave his sorry ass and as for that Maje he's obviously going to die alone and that's the truth you can't cause someone pain and expect happiness.

    ReplyDelete
  16. What are some of you saying about Toke not being a good wife hence Maje had the right to cheat like what the hell there is no excuse absolutely none for cheating in a marriage. If she was a terrible wife then divorce her return her to her father's house but never to cheat on her as a consequence of not being a good wife that's absolute rubbish. And as for anita what am I hearing that she's a peace loving person what peace loving person sleeps and gets pregnant for a married man, I can still understand it when they were single and he was dating toke and anita but immediately he took his wedding vows with toke that was her cue to leave his sorry ass and as for that Maje he's obviously going to die alone and that's the truth you can't cause someone pain and expect happiness.

    ReplyDelete

Kemi Filani Blog (KFB) keeps it real, makes it fun!

We appreciate your comment(s).

If you need to contact Kemi Filani
News/Tip Off/Advert
08134866321
kemisolafilani@gmail.com


Disclaimer:
*Comments on this blog are NOT posted by Kemi Filani.
*Readers are SOLELY responsible for the comments they post
*Thank you.

Designed by Jide Ogunsanya.
Related Posts Plugin for WordPress, Blogger...