Just so you know we are adhering to your recommendation, we are kicking off our very first heart-2-heart column where readers get to send in issues and personal experiences that they seek answers to. We actually started something like this last year (HERE) but we weren't regular with it.
Anyway, here's today issue!
I have been pondering on this issue since I woke up this morning,
I have my family from Lagos around for the holiday and they have destroyed some things already and some things are no longer they used to be 😂😂😂😱 but hey I still love having them around 😜😜😜.
I have lived with my uncle before for like 4years from when I came to Abuja, but I didn't really enjoy it. But I didn't know what I was missing till they moved out. Mehn God bless our parents 😩😩😩😩😩😘😘😘😘 All the bills they pay and all the love and free food..😄😄😄
Then I started living with my friends...its was fun but you know everyone will still have their differences. But I still love them still 😍😘😍😍😍😍😍😰😰😰😰
Finally, I started living alone. Hmmmm, it wasn't so nice at the beginning but I got used to it, I got so used to it that I over loved it sef, the independence, the fact that I knew what was out and what was in, etc.
But now that's the danger I felt I was falling into...."I got so used to it that I started imaging what it would be like when married?!" "Mehn, when I will squeeze toothpaste from the bottom and he squeezes it from the middle, I can nearly kill someone for that", "I pay my bills myself and even call mechanic to fix my car" All By MySELF.
Now this is it, I have gone through the three faces, and I am getting too used to the worst of them all (in my opinion).
This is my question, "Is it good for a Single Lady to:
1. Live with family till she gets married
2. Live with friends till she gets married
3. Live alone till she gets married.
Your opinions please. Will really appreciate it.