Chimamanda Adichie has been trending on Twitter Nigeria for over 24 hours now as
people are calling her out for her statement during a speech she gave
on feminism at the London’s Royal Festival Hall on Thursday to celebrate
the 10th anniversary of her best selling novel, “Half of A Yellow Sun”.
Chimamanda who has won global fandom from every one from Beyonce to Michelle Obama has Twitter NG incensed by her statement that young
Nigerian women are less progressive about feminism than her mother’s
generation.
I feel like younger Nigerian women are actually less
progressive than even my mother’s generation. It’s not a question of
blaming them, I think it’s a product of the society we live in and the
messages they’re getting. And so people who are 23 are just obsessed
with marriage, as the end-all and be-all. It’s very interesting to me.
On feminism:
A feminist is who and what I am. It’s not a cloak I put on on certain days and take off on certain days.
I just did not get the memo that men and women are not equal. I did not get that memo.
I’m a daughter, I’m a sister, mother now, wife. All of those things,
and being a good feminist, are not mutually exclusive at all.
On feminism in Nigeria:
I think for people who have a hostility to the idea of
gender equality, they will say things like, ‘You cannot be feminist and
have a husband, actually,’ [laughs] ‘If you want to be a feminist, be a feminist in your husband’s house,’ [laughs] and it’s nonsense really.I feel like younger Nigerian women are actually less progressive than
even my mother’s generation. It’s not a question of blaming them, I
think it’s a product of the society we live in and the messages they’re
getting. And so people who are 23 are just obsessed with marriage, as
the end-all and be-all. It’s very interesting to me.I also think there’s a kind of viciousness that underlies that
obsession, and a kind of misogyny. I find that there’s actually a strong
strain of misogyny in the young generation of Nigerian women. It’s very
worrying. It’s the young women who police women, even more than men.
It’s part of the same thing. In the end, for me, it’s ‘who does the
system benefit?’ and it benefits men. Even if women are participating in
it, it benefits men.
On motherhood:
I still look at her [daughter] in absolute wonder. And I think, You’re really here and you’re really mine. And she is just the most beautiful human being in the world.”
Having her I’ve realised how love really can manifest as anxiety. So I
just worry about my child. I want to make sure everything is fine with
her.I want her to live in a world where borders are not as policed as
they are. It’s very easy to move capital, but very difficult to move
labour and people. I want that to change. I want her to live in a world
where men and women have the same opportunities, where gender does not
hold women back. I want her to live in a world where she’s never told
‘you cannot do this because you’re a woman’. I want her to live in a
world where it’s possible to have a normal job and not have to worry
about what you’re going to eat. I want her to live in a world where
healthcare is a human right.