Charly Boy says he isn’t happy
due to the rate at which marriages are crumbling. The media personality
known for dropping occasional opinions on relationships and marriages,
lamented on the rising rate of divorce among young couples. Charly Boy on his official Instagram
page wrote a lengthy but thought-provoking post about marriage and
relationships. He expressed his fears saying that marriage may become
old-fashioned in the next five years.
The
media personality even volunteered to become a marriage counselor to
couples experiencing marital problems and promised that it would be
strictly confidential.
Read his post below:
“Talk
to me I swear, I am very saddened how the marriage institution is going
down the drain these days. Young people are no longer responsible or
disciplined enough to stick it out in any given relationship and I fear
that in the next five years, marriage as we know it, may become old
fashioned. Na Wa!!
A while back, I was
talking to one of my sons who at 38 still can’t wrap his head around the
permanence of marriage and this gave me cause for concern when he asked
me, “why must marriage be forever or for better for worse, and couldn’t
it be for maybe a few years as mutually agreed.”
I may be old/new school, but I still believe in Family and Marriage.
I
believe that every human being is created to have a desire to be
married and some have a desire to be single. But most of us want to be
married. So, you CAN’T have a healthy marriage with unhealthy habits.
Mbanu!!!
Whether or not a young couple
stays together often depends on why they got married in the first place.
Take it from me; it is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship
that makes unhappy marriages.
Being
married to the same person for almost 38 years has taught me that
marriage is no moimoi, neither is it beans and rice. Both parties must
work at it daily and must give all of himself /herself every day,
forever. For me and my wife we are committed to managing each other
because the devil we know is better than the Angel to come. Marriage
like I keep saying is how we maturely deal with our incompatibility
rather than our compatibility.
So if you
are having challenges in your marriage, and you really want to stay
married but need to talk to someone to share your problems with, you can
call me on 08033076993, maybe we will learn a thing or two from each
other.
Your call will be strictly confidential”
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