A True Love Story: The pregnancy tested our relationship but brought us even closer - Foston and Ajoke

Happy family!

Our couple for today, Foston and Ajoke will be getting married very soon and ahead of their big day, they have released their love story and prewedding photos.

The lovebirds who had their introduction in December 2015, are proud parents of a baby boy Kendrick, and the bride-to-be says the pregnancy tested their relationship, but brought them even closer – “we made the choice to keep the baby amidst fire and brimstone from my dad and school & he held my hand through it all”.
You are the sun in my day, the wind in my sky, the waves in my ocean, and the beat in my heart.

Their Love story:
After exchanging some DMs I agreed to give him my phone number. He was out of the country on holiday at the time,but we had some real nice daily conversations over the phone during his absence. The day he was due to arrive he called & was like I really wanna meet you so I’m gonna come see you straight from the airport!
part two
You are there when I feel sad,
You are there when my mood is bad,
You always support me in life,
You are the only reason why I survive,
Love you!

So we met over drinks and for some reason when he asked me to accompany him to inspect a new house completed in his absence that he was anxious to see that night I agreed; partly because I’m in the construction field but mainly because strangely, I trusted him!
You understand me,
When I don’t speak a word,
Without you, everything looks blurred,
You are the light of my life,
Without you I can’t survive,
Love you too much my hubby!

lady in black
You gave me everything I wanted. You taught me everything I needed to know. You helped me with everything when I was down. What more can I ask for?

And I was right to, we were supposed to spend mere minutes at the house but we ended up spending the whole night talking, about everything,it was like we had known each other for years, it was magical!

What is more gorgeous than a Greek god, more handsome than a Hollywood heartthrob and more giving than a millionaire? Answer: You! You are all this and more, my dear husband. I love being with you.

God has given me a wonderful gift, he has made you mine.
I always thank him for this valuable gift in my life.
Love you my honey!

For you my dear husband, I make a prayer that no treachery, jealousy, envy, betrayal, lies or misunderstandings come in between us. This will be God's biggest gift in my life.

Fast forward  two years, I was in my finals and we were pregnant – we made the choice to keep the baby amidst fire and brimstone from my dad and school & he held my hand through it all.
Foston, Ajoke and Kendrick!

I love this man so much it’s ridiculous! He is my best friend. An answer to a prayer I never even knew I said. 
Dad, momma and little Kendrick
“Despite all of the troubles and problems of day-to-day existence, life is perfect for us. You have made my entire life into a fairytale-like existence.”

He is not the most romantic guy in the world, but he tries and puts in a daily effort to make me happy and make our relationship better than it was the day before, and for this reason I know I’m marrying the right person.

The Utomis
       We cant't wait to feature their glam wedding coming up soon!


  1. Smh, pregnancy before marriage nah, I would pass please

    1. 100 likes for your comment bros. Passing too

    2. Mshew, get a life! This story inspired me. It is not all of us that are virgins, some of us are second virgins who missed it along the way, and got pregnant. We need stories like this to be motivated. Do you the pain, the regrets,t he frustration of getting pregnant out of wedlock??? That shame is already enough punishment, so don't judge.

    3. My dear I don't know u but congratulations in advance. Don't let the haters here discourage u. Have the best wedding life has to offer. Don't be afraid to wear the wedding dress of your dreams and celebrate. If your church won't let you... Get something simple, go to court & exchange your vows at your reception venue in the afternoon. heck you can even hire a pastor, doesn't not have to be at a church to have a blessed marriage. Don't let some backward thinking Nigerians hold you back. I will be back to see your pictures :)

  2. This is awesome! The person thats not a virgin at wedding night and the one thats pregnant b4 the wedding whats the difference? Cuz someone's try to sound holy!!!!! Kendrick is cute!! Weldone

    1. This is why it is often not advised for couples to engage in long courtship. Six months or almost one year is enough. All these two, three, four, seven years courtship leads the couple into sin. There is no how sex will not happen. If you really love someone, you will always want to have sex with the person

    2. My cousin and her hubstar dated for eight years. They were in secondary school both teenager when they started. They got married after nysc last year. They were both virgins till their wedding night, iyen tun ko?

    3. Are u sure? They may have done it without telling u

    4. Imo Chick u think everyone us like u.

  3. Beautiful Couple. HML in advance to them.


  4. *sigh* kemi please post " waited and loving it " that post about couples who wait till marriage before the ate the cookie...that post always inspire me! today love story the couple looks good, well pregnancy before marriage isn't an admirable thing but keeping the baby and not aborting after she knew she was pregnant is very challenging and sweet. Who am I to judge whom God haven't condemned, humans we're so quick to judge forgetting we have our own personal flaws. Wish them happy married life in advance

  5. Wow see their cute lil man. The bride is beautiful congrats to them

    1. As in, he is so cute. Her baby bump too. Pregnancy fits her well

    2. Family goals!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So many hypocrites and pharisees on this blog. I am out.

  6. The woman is so beautiful.... Baby mama...

  7. @0957 So would you have preferred them to abort the child? We all make mistakes, no one is perfect. Moreover do you think all the couples that kemi Filani features on the TLS are virgins. I can bet it that only 20% of them are. The important thing is bn happy and when you fall into sin, ASK God for forgiveness and don't go deeper.

    1. Really? So I can always have sex and ask God for forgiveness after the sex? Why then does the Bible say abstain from all forms of sequel immorality?

  8. Interesting story, fine couple, but Kemi wait o I thought you were for team no sex till after wedding night?????

  9. Beautiful bride.

  10. Let him who is without sin cast the first stone. I rest my case. Congrats to the couple.

  11. Madam kemi you are now swallowing comments abi? You no try at all.

  12. kemi, are yo you encouraging pre marital sex now or what?

  13. No one is perfect, d fact that they decided to keep the child is a commendable act in itself. We all aren't perfect and as such shouldn't take d responsiblility of God 2 judge anyone's mistakes. The bride is beautiful with her handsome hubby&cute son; they alredi look lyk d perfect family. I wish d couple a Happy Married Life

  14. Some young girls will read this now and conclude that there is nothing wrong in having premarital sex afterall Foston impregnated and married Ajoke.

  15. She is just one lucky woman. I know of several babymamas that dont end up marrying their baby daddies, singer waje for example

  16. I agree with one of the comments above, it is impossible to be in a long term relationship without having sex, that is why teenagers are discouraged from going into relationships till they are done with school. The longer the relationship, the more closer you get to having sex. Short courtship is just the best

  17. As far as thhe guy no deny am, i no see anything bad oooo

  18. Interesting narration. Very fine family. The boy shud be their ring bearer at the wedding. Twud be really nice.


  19. Hypocrites...make una go drink garri abeg.
    Congratulations to the couples, so glad you are getting married despite all the hurdles. Happy the guy was responsible enough to stick through it all.
    Kemi, thanks for crossing over to the other side and telling a story like this, it sure gives hope to those who have lost it.


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