Hi Kemi, please publish as anonymous biko.
Please this is a big issue for me and I need the advice of my fellow kfbers. My story may
seem funny but please know it is crazily true.
I got married four months ago to the ‘man of my dreams’ I think.
Everything was fine until after our two weeks honeymoon. I woke up that
morning like a stranger in my home.
I looked at my husband who as usual wanted to give me a good morning
kiss and I really dint feel anything. I initially thought it was part of
d marriage norm.
After one month of “pretending” to reciprocate d love my husband shows
me, I cldnt take it anymore. It wasnt fair to him to have to force
myself to kiss him, touch him and even have sex with him. I was
faithfully performing my marital duties not because I love him.
He initially dint notice a thing, but after I had to leave our matrimonial bed to another room, he began to ask question.
How do I tell him, I dont love him anymore or dnt feel anything for me.
He is still as caring and nice and charming as he used to, but I feel
trapped. We still talk and I still cook for him and do other things a
wife shld do, buht I cant let him touch me because each time I look at
him, all I want to sai to him is “y did I marry you…I dont want you
anymore”.
My marriage is just four months old and I am tired already. I think I was jazzed or somthing. Please what do I do kfbers?